Lingerie for Non-binary People
By now, it should be clear that gender identity is a broad spectrum with plenty of intersections and ambiguities. As the world becomes more accepting of diverse gender identities, more and more people are stepping out, proudly living their lives in a way that affirms their gender.
The problem is that, even though more and more people are proudly stepping out, the world still does not operate in a way that accommodates their needs and helps them feel comfortable in their own skin.
This is particularly true for non-binary people, especially in the fashion industry. In an industry that is designed for those who identify as male and female, where do non-binary people fit in?
This is even truer when it comes to lingerie. Even people who identify with the gender that they were assigned at birth can struggle to find lingerie that makes them feel confident, comfortable and sexy, so just imagine how difficult it is for non-binary individuals.
At Gaff and Go, we wholeheartedly believe that lingerie should not come with limitations. Not only do we pride ourselves on being able to offer a range of lingerie for all genders, but we also pride ourselves on helping to make a more informed and comfortable world for non-binary people.
Keep reading to find out how, along with our tips for picking lingerie as a non-binary person.
Challenges Non-binary People Face With Traditional Lingerie
Finding lingerie that makes you feel good, while also being comfortable and even sexy when you want it to be, can be incredibly difficult for non-binary people. Though there is a lot of transgender lingerie steadily becoming available, the same can not be said for non-binary people.
Some of the challenges they face include:
Gendered Sizing Systems
When you look at any size chart, the way that they will display the size for clothing is by showcasing the styles for men and women, but what about all of the babes in between?
There is an irony in people who explicitly live outside the gender box being forced to jump back into it to shop, only to not even receive something that fits their body well.
No two non-binary people are the same, and it's such a broad spectrum that just male and female sizes can’t cater to. For example, a non-binary person who was assigned male at birth and then decided to take hormones to combat body dysphoria will not have the same sizing as a non-binary individual who has not pursued any hormones.
It can feel like non-binary people are taking on an uphill battle when it comes to sizing, but the lingerie industry all too often lets them down.
At Gaff and Go, we don’t think sizing should be gendered, which is why all of our lingerie is sized based on dimensions, not sex.
Limited Styles
When it comes to shopping for lingerie, everyone likes options. It is very uncommon that you will snap up the first style you encounter, and different bodies suit different styles.
Unfortunately, non-binary people don’t really have the opportunity to shop around and often have to just settle on whatever’s available to them, which means that they don’t get the chance to explore self-expression or wear something that makes them feel good about themselves.
Underwear for non-binary people should not come with so many limitations, and at Gaff and Go, we’re hoping to change the market.
Lack of Products Designed For Tucking
If a non-binary person was assigned male at birth and has not decided to undergo surgery, they still might like the option of tucking. There is a lot of fluidity in gender, especially for non-binary people.
Dysphoria is a problem commonly faced by non-binary individuals, though they may be comfortable with their body today, that does not mean that they will be tomorrow. To combat this, a lot of non-binary people engage in tucking, but not all lingerie products accommodate this.
Though tucking gaffs can work well in these situations, no non-binary person should have strict limitations on the lingerie they can wear in 2025.
The Emotional Impact of Non Gender Affirming Lingerie
Lingerie is about more than just sexy lace and frills; it's a way for individuals to feel confident and euphoric in their own bodies. Even when you are feeling uncomfortable or lacking confidence, strutting in front of the mirror in some gorgeous lingerie can completely change that.
For a lot of non-binary people, they can’t experience that. Instead, this opportunity to feel sexy and confident is often replaced with the anxiety of trying to find anything that fits.
Non-binary people have to face dysphoria constantly, and it only becomes worse when they can’t find lingerie which makes them feel comfortable.
Have you ever had one of those moments where you’re trying on clothes at a new store and nothing fits right? Imagine that every time you try to buy lingerie.
What to Look For in Non-binary Lingerie
At Gaff and Go, we take pride in offering an inclusive lingerie line that meets the needs of every gender. Not only do we recognise the importance of gender affirming lingerie, we have searched for it ourselves too, and we like to think we know what to look for in non-binary lingerie.
Comfort and Support
Sure, lingerie is supposed to be sexy, but that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be comfortable too. Like anything that you plan on wearing for an extended period of time, you expect it to be comfortable. If you wish to use your lingerie for tucking, you also need it to be supportive, as having a good hold can ensure that you can tuck comfortably.
When selecting lingerie, it is essential to examine the material and ensure that it meets your needs. Look out for materials that provide compression, but are still breathable. Our tucking gaff range, for example, has been specifically designed with a soft and breathable cotton/polyester mix, ensuring comfort without compromising on style.
Gender-affirming Features
Whether you’re looking to tuck or pack to feel gender euphoria, the lingerie that you select should be able to accommodate that. For example, if you are looking to pack, you should look for pockets designed to accommodate your packers.
If you want to tuck, look for compression zones in your underwear to assess whether your needs will be catered to.
Gender-neutral Designs and Colour Options
Why is it that when you try to buy lingerie, you’re usually limited to two extremes? You can either find something that is ultra-feminine or masculine, where’s the in between?
When looking for lingerie that will make you feel comfortable, be sure to look out for gender neutral colours and designs, as this may make you feel more open to experimenting with your lingerie colours in the future.
Remember, only buy pieces that make you feel good.
Clear and Inclusive Sizing Guides
There is nothing worse than ordering something online, only for it to be miles too big or way too small. Before committing to a purchase, make sure that you understand the size guide and that it is clear.
If the sizing is ambiguous, it might be a good idea to avoid the risk of purchase. But don’t worry, we know several lingerie brands that offer clear and concise sizing guides that cover a range of body shapes and sizes. There are plenty of UK based transgender clothing stores that are equipped to meet your needs, so don’t be afraid to shop around.
Or don’t, you’re already in the right place…
How Gaff and Go is Changing The Game
We hope to have given you more insight into what to look for when shopping around for lingerie, but you’ll be glad to know that you’re already in the prime spot.
We pride ourselves on being at the forefront of innovation for transgender and non-binary lingerie, and here are some of the reasons why:
Sizing Beyond the Binary
We don’t mess around with male, female or anything between sizing. Our lingerie is all true to size, accurately following the dimensions for your body. That means that you don’t have to play guessing games with sizes L, S, 18 and 6; all you need to do is measure your body size and find the garment size that matches your body.
Designs That Meet Diverse Needs
We know more than most just how important it is to be able to cater to a diverse range of needs. At Gaff and Go, we are passionate about being able to offer something for everyone, no matter the occasion.
Whether you’re stripping down to your smalls or heading to the pool, we have pieces that will ensure that you feel both confident and comfortable while doing so.
You shouldn’t have to cater your wants and needs to the market, and with Gaff and Go, you don’t have to.
Non-gendered Shopping Experience
On our site, you’ll find no gendered clothing - just high-quality pieces that are completely accessible for all. We don’t think that fashion has a gender, and that reflects on our site. No matter your needs, we have the perfect piece for you.
Putting You First
We know exactly what it’s like to not be able to find lingerie that meets our needs, and we have gone through the struggle of settling for clothing that we don’t necessarily like, just so that we have something to wear, and we want to put a stop to that.
All of our pieces are designed with our clients in mind and have been tried and tested by real non-binary and transgender individuals, so you can browse our lingerie range with the comfort that everything has been selected with you in mind.
Popular Picks For Non-Binary People at Gaff and Go
Not sure where to start? Here is a look at some of our more popular pieces.
Magic Sports Brief
Perfect for those with an active lifestyle, the Magic Sports Brief features moisture-wicking technology that keeps you dry while exercising. Its unique gusset and front panel provide a secure tuck, making it ideal for activities such as yoga, hiking, or gym workouts.
Whether you’re looking to tuck or pack, this comfortable garment has you covered.
Magic Gaffs
Created by a trans woman, these gaff panties focus on comfort and functionality. They include a strong elastic waistband and ultra-luxurious cotton lining, ensuring secure tucking and a flattering, feminine silhouette. Offered in sizes XS to XXL, they accommodate various body types.
Because these gaffs have been designed by someone who has lived experience in finding underwear that works for them, you can rest easy knowing that they’re designed with comfort, functionality and style in mind.
Black Bikini Bottom
Our high-waisted bikini bottoms provide complete coverage up to the hip area. Lined with high-quality cotton, they comfortably secure the genitals, creating a flattering shape. With discreet packaging and an accurate fit, they are a dependable option for everyday wear.
Whether you’re wearing them to the pool or just to run errands, this comfy pair is something that every non-binary individual should have in their collection.
Why Inclusive Underwear For Non-binary People Matters
Inclusive underwear for non-binary people matters because non-binary people matter. Inclusivity is something that everyone should have the right to, and yes, that extends to your underwear.
Making lingerie and underwear that caters to non-binary people can be so easy if businesses take the time and effort to do it, and with a growing population of people finally acknowledging their gender identity, it’s about time that they don’t have to jump over hurdles to experience comfort.
Gender Affirming Lingerie Without Compromise
At Gaff and Go, we are committed to leading the charge for trans and non-binary underwear. If you would like to see what people think about our lingerie, take a look at our reviews, and if you want to further discuss our range of products, don’t hesitate to get in touch.